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I absolutely hate my job right now and I feel depressed. I just celebrated my one year anniversary at my job, and I pray that I will win the lottery - or at least get a notice in the mail for jury duty so that I don't have to go to work.
I am currently looking for a new position; however, I have a mortgage so I can't quit until I find a job with an equivalent salary. I could give you a whole list of why I don't like my job: such as inconsistent management policies, low morale, having to work constant overtime just to keep up with everything (I'm on salary so I'm not getting paid for this extra time), uninformed upper management. If however, I am really depressed and that is WHY I hate my job, then once I find a new job I'm still going to feel just as tired, uninterested, unmotivated as I feel now. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Jan 12, 2010 at 11:49 AM HFS
Everything blew-up 5 years ago. My wife found a charge to a massage parlor. (I justified that I was paying for something my wife use to enjoy but refused to do anymore)
I love my wife and want to stay together. We were in therapy for two year. I have managed to keep it in my pants for the last 5 years. But i am so close to saying fuck it. she wont talk about how it bothers her. She makes promises and doesn't follow through.
But when it comes right down to it, I was in the wrong... I am trying to be the best husband I can, but I don't know how much longer I can take it. Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on Apr 11, 2010 at 3:34 PM I know I'm not alone, but I am so angry that my life is on hold. I have been unemployed since December 2007, and still don't get why I can't find ANYTHING. My unemployment is long exhausted and had to take money from relatives and my 401k to survive. Because of this I am trapped here. I live in an area with no jobs and most of my neighbors have money and believe those of us without jobs are lazy. I want desperately to move near the guy I love (which incidentally lives near the top two areas for jobs in Illinois) but can't until I find a job. So I apply for jobs near him and still nothing. In this year I had exactly three interviews, one in person and two phone interviews, all rejections. Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on May 27, 2010 at 1:50 PM Job sucks. Everything is breaking. Can't buy the house I want. Fuck. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on May 24, 2010 at 7:55 PM Why are you depressed?
I am depressed because I cant find a job. I have an Associates degree. I always give my job 100%. In early summer, I was hired at this Doctors office. He told me that I would be salaried , I would work 32 hrs per week. In the summer time I would not have to worry about money - since I was salaried. I bought into this BS and accepted the job. I started the job and he decided that I was going to share MY job with someone else. He felt that I needed to get used to his 10 YEAR OLD equiptment! Weeks passed, he said things were working out fine. My first month passed, I over heard him talking to his " Nurse " ( who I found out later is a medical assistant)- they were discussing how patient appointments were slowing down. I was called into the office and told that I would remain at 24 hrs per week, and I would not be salaried. I went home and cried. This doctors office reuses equiptment that is supposed to be for a one time use only! I would try to clean things with bleach, and get screamed at for using bleach. If the ancient computer froze - I was blamed! In May I was laid off , I was told that he could not afford to pay me. Because of this I hate his race ( Indians).
I wasnt raised to hate people. Im sad. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Jun 13, 2010 at 12:18 AM HFS...
I’ve had this job for two years. I can’t move up, I can’t move sideways, unless I pursue a degree in information services (which i don’t want to do).
I really feel at a crossroads. At this time, I am planning to study graphic design next year. I am currently trying to save up for my wedding which I think will be early next year. I have my full-time job, and a casual job on the side for more money.
I doubt that i would find another full-time job that would pay equally or more than what I’m getting, especially because I would need to go part-time in Feb next year to study full-time.
*sigh*
My performance is terrible, I have a review this coming Tuesday and i know i suck. There are no other new skills I feel I can learn here, and my brain feels like it’s turning to mush. Posted by Anonymous who is unmotivated on Jan 12, 2010 at 11:54 PM HFS
Almost 40
Single
No occupation, no industry
A bullshit BS degree that gets me nowhere
Have never made a lot of money
Worked survival sales jobs which I will never again.
Switched to a secretary last year, and hate it.
Can't go back to school, have to work for rent bene's my car, do not want incur debt (really can't at my age). Will still have the same skill set.
People smart, socially conscience and smart, cultured, savvy, great communication skills, but not book smart- struggled for years and years since high school. Don't remember a lot.
Have only had full bene's once in the last twenty years for 3 years only. (now I have only health)
Going to try AGAIN to learn PowerPoint and Excel- I currently don't use (never really have), so no use, you lose it. Know basic excel and PP.
No savings
Scrape by
No more vacations
It is such a downward spiral for so long. Tired. Depresses me.
Hate when people tell me to get a new job. Not so great track record or references (the ones I do have are spectacular). Too much competition and won't get selected for lack of skills, and track record: read will never have bene's.
Have ALWAYS excelled at my jobs- last sales job, traveled and was a top performer. A great employee, never miss work. Dedicated.
Outlook for the future is bleak as all analysts predict where the future will be contract work, temp hires, very little businesses will hire so they don't have to pay bene's retirement or paid vacations- it is so bleak, don't tell me it is my attitude, being real and these are the facts. Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on Apr 9, 2010 at 12:52 PM I just blew like $500 at the casino and I believe I have a gambling problem because I keep doing this every time I go. This really sucks because gambling is something that I really like to do, and I know this has become quite a horrible addiction. I suppose I need to stop going, but I am wondering, how the fuck am I going to win or get this money back? I suppose I have to work my ass off for it at a job now, ohh well. Posted by mike_needsbeer who is depressed on Mar 31, 2010 at 6:13 PM HFS
I am being blamed for everything that my "manager" should have taken care of before she left for her 3 week vacation. I am completely illegal right now in 2 states (bench warrants, uninspected car, suspended license do to non payment of dui fines) and i am too broke to get any of these things taken care of. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Mar 3, 2010 at 5:47 PM Why are you unmotivated?
Wish I new.
Just wake up thinking it will be a better day and as soon as it is time to do the work I need to do . . . POW . . . I feel like shit and don't want to do anything.
Tomorrow will be a better day I say, but same shit.
Kinda like a sign I saw in a bar once, FREE BEER TOMORROW!
But everyday is free beer tomorrow.
Anyway, now it is 3pm and to late to start, to early to finish, so now I sit here doing nothing again.
HOLY FUCKING SHIT! Posted by Anonymous who is unmotivated on Jun 1, 2010 at 3:06 PM |
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Why are you depressed? My wife is constantly cheating on me, I just don't know what to do anymore. I told her the last time she did it, that if it happened again, I would be gone. Well guess what... It happened again, and she just acted like she didn't even care, until she was sober, then it's "I'm sorry babe, I didn't mean to", or some kind of excuse like that. But it would be hard for me to leave her, because I love her with everything I have, and also we have a baby together. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Aug 30, 2010 at 5:27 PM Why are you unmotivated?
I have no clue. But I've been evicted once before and I'm about to be evicted again. I've even lived in my car, and that's STILL not enough to get me motivated to fix things. I'd really like to know what WOULD light a fire under my ass to get my life back together. I'm an incredibly talented guy with a knack for helping people out, but when it comes to helping myself, I'm entirely helpless.
What the fuck?! Posted by fury who is unmotivated on Jul 28, 2010 at 11:18 PM Why are you out of options?
I want to kill myself Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on Jul 27, 2010 at 8:31 PM Why are you depressed?
Because i every one of my age has got married, and among friends i'm the only one left. They r all pushing me to get married, but the fact is that i cant find a right girl who would get to know me well and have a happy life...
Fucking life.... Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Jul 20, 2010 at 7:28 AM Why are you out of options?
i had sex with my girlfriend and she is pregnant and i can't find a better paying job than the one i have. buttfuck. Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on Jul 19, 2010 at 6:15 PM Why are you depressed?
I can't find a job. I've applied everywhere. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Jul 10, 2010 at 3:41 AM Why are you depressed?
I am depressed because I cant find a job. I have an Associates degree. I always give my job 100%. In early summer, I was hired at this Doctors office. He told me that I would be salaried , I would work 32 hrs per week. In the summer time I would not have to worry about money - since I was salaried. I bought into this BS and accepted the job. I started the job and he decided that I was going to share MY job with someone else. He felt that I needed to get used to his 10 YEAR OLD equiptment! Weeks passed, he said things were working out fine. My first month passed, I over heard him talking to his " Nurse " ( who I found out later is a medical assistant)- they were discussing how patient appointments were slowing down. I was called into the office and told that I would remain at 24 hrs per week, and I would not be salaried. I went home and cried. This doctors office reuses equiptment that is supposed to be for a one time use only! I would try to clean things with bleach, and get screamed at for using bleach. If the ancient computer froze - I was blamed! In May I was laid off , I was told that he could not afford to pay me. Because of this I hate his race ( Indians).
I wasnt raised to hate people. Im sad. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on Jun 13, 2010 at 12:18 AM Why are you unmotivated?
Wish I new.
Just wake up thinking it will be a better day and as soon as it is time to do the work I need to do . . . POW . . . I feel like shit and don't want to do anything.
Tomorrow will be a better day I say, but same shit.
Kinda like a sign I saw in a bar once, FREE BEER TOMORROW!
But everyday is free beer tomorrow.
Anyway, now it is 3pm and to late to start, to early to finish, so now I sit here doing nothing again.
HOLY FUCKING SHIT! Posted by Anonymous who is unmotivated on Jun 1, 2010 at 3:06 PM I know I'm not alone, but I am so angry that my life is on hold. I have been unemployed since December 2007, and still don't get why I can't find ANYTHING. My unemployment is long exhausted and had to take money from relatives and my 401k to survive. Because of this I am trapped here. I live in an area with no jobs and most of my neighbors have money and believe those of us without jobs are lazy. I want desperately to move near the guy I love (which incidentally lives near the top two areas for jobs in Illinois) but can't until I find a job. So I apply for jobs near him and still nothing. In this year I had exactly three interviews, one in person and two phone interviews, all rejections. Posted by Anonymous who is out of options on May 27, 2010 at 1:50 PM Job sucks. Everything is breaking. Can't buy the house I want. Fuck. Posted by Anonymous who is depressed on May 24, 2010 at 7:55 PM |